“Q”: I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 3 YEARS. BROKE UP WITH HIM & BEEN SINGLE FOR 2 YEARS & COUNTING. HOW DO I GET BACK INTO THE DATING SCENE? SHOULD I DATE?
“A”: Yesssss you should date!! There’s nothing wrong with dating!!! I feel like it helps you learn what you do and don’t like!!! NOW, I would be careful to make sure you are dating for the right reasons. MEANING dating to ya know meet new people, gain some experience, get freee food…. blah blah blah! VS dating to FILL A VOID. Dating just so you aren’t alone. YOU HAVE TO THINK ABOUT THIS!! Why are you dating…. and also figure out if you’re even ready to date….(you’ll never know until you try)
Now after you’ve figured out why you’re dating, I would suggest figuring out your TYPE and go to those places!!!!!!! For example, you want a physically fit man, try the gym, you want a sports fan, go to a sports game or a sports bar. You want a business oriented man, try a hotel…..
NOT saying you will meet Mr. Perfect with that tactic, but by thinking about what you WANT and moving INTENTIONAL, you’re bound to meet someone that sparks your interest!! You just gotta be open to different!!
MIND you I’m dating, and the shit is annoying!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but I’m learning soooo much about myself and just men overall!!! So be prepared to have your patience tested beau it’s not easy, but ypu’ll be surprised how far you’ll get with the right mindset!!
