“Q”: SO, WHAT WOULD YOU DO, OR SHOULD YOU DO IF YOU COME HOME AND ANOTHER WOMAN/MAN IN BED WITH YOUR PARTNER AND THEY BOTH SLEEP WITHOUT CLOTHES ON?
“A”: Awwwwwwwwwww DAMN!!! What in the COMPLETE BULLSHIT!!! Honestly I am sorry that happened to you or to whomever behalf you’re asking on. There’s 2 answers…
What WOULD happen, is complete RAGE! Probably some furniture flipping, yelling, cursing, and hell probably some fighting is bound to happen. That sort of thing is seldomly handled rationally because it is simply an irrational act….
What SHOULD you do, is the only thing you can do….. CONTROL YOURSELF. Take the deepest of breaths and as you release the air you’ve gathered, RELEASE the sight you’ve just seen. Release the relationship. Release the anger. Release the heart ache. Release the tears and EVERYTHING you are feeling at the moment, because if you don’t and you hold onto it, you’ll begin to blame yourself and question yourself and ultimately allow that toxic event to change who you are for the worse. AND THAT’S NOT FAIR TO YOU.
Now, of course I can’t tell you to keep calm after seeing that, because flipping out is a natural reaction soooo kick, scream, flip that damn bed over!!!!!! BUT know that flipping that piece of furniture and cursing that persons name, ISN’T gonna change what you saw or change the fact of the matter. It’s only gonna make things worse and give that person access to hurt you with their lies even more. Which you dont deserve…
And hey, I know it’s easier said than done, but whats done is done and with this hard situation, you must realize that you will need to protect your peace at all times and the best thing to do in this situation is to just walk away. As hard as that may be, it is ultimately what is best. Don’t give anymore of your energy because as you can clearly see, it’s unappreciated.
(if nothing else, use this situation to be an example of what you DON’T want in your life!!)
See it. Feel it. Accept it. Fuck it.
