“Q”: HELP!!! EVERY TIME WE’RE IN THE CITY WE LINK. BUT NOW HE HAS A FIANCÉ AND A BABY ON THE WAY. I ALSO HAVE A BOYFRIEND BUT I CAN’T STOP. WHAT SHOULD I DO ???
“A”: It’s not a matter of you “CAN’T” stop, you “WON’T” stop annndd you won’t stop because you have yet to analyze the situation….As innnn WHY are you doing what your’e doing?? Is it because yall are working towards something? NO! cxz he’s committed himself to someone else that’s carrying his baby…. Isss it because y’all are just having “fun” and it’s not serious? Wellll if that were true, you would be able to stop!! But you “CAN’T” because you’re caught up in the game he’s playing with you….
Once you do that and realize the people you are hurting and the effect this will have on them you’ll stop…
You’ll stop when you realize that the city boy doesn’t respect you and has ultimately made you disrespect yourself. You’ll stop when you’re tired of having to share him. When you’re tired of his excuses, when the baby comes and it’s ALWAYS SOMETHING. You’ll stop when your boyfriend never wants to speak or see you again because you lied to him time after time. When you’ve begun to hurt the same way you hurt the other people involved….
What you should do, is WHAT’S BEST FOR YOU. STOP wasting you boyfriends time!! You’re cheating on him; youn like him ANNNDD leave the city boy alone. He belongs to the city and right about now, so do you. Have some SELF RESPECT and understand that you deserve to be happy with YOUR OWN MAN!!!
You are pretending that you can’t stop, because right now it feels good and it’s exciting, but if you can’t maintain self control thennnn time will surely take control and show you what you knew alllll along….
