“Q”: HE WENT BACK TO HIS EX, WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
“A”: Honestly, there’s not much you can do…. Sure you could try to have a talk with him to see what happened between you two, but he’ll more than likely just lie to save face and not hurt your feelings. Or you could “hold him down” until he comes to his “senses” but that’s not a sure thing and waiting ONLY waste your time, all the while he’s filling his time with who HE WANTS to be with.
If he went back to her, that means he’s BEEN thinking about her, dreaming about her, missing her and used you to ease his mind, but it didn’t work. Nowwwww idk about yo but the thought of “my man” thinking of another woman to the point he goes back to her, TURNS ME OFF COMPLETELY!! He lied to you every single day and that is unforgivable….
Use this time to self reflect and forgive. Take some time to really look at the situation for WHAT IT IS. Meaning stop giving him the benefit of the doubt by being in denial and see him for who he is and what he has done. HE WENT BACK TO HER, someone I’m sure you questioned him about and he told you that you didn’t have to worry and you believed him and because you did, your’e the one left hurting. IT HAPPENS and it’s not WHAT happens to us, it’s WHO we become…
Think of it this way, Never let a person show you twice they don’t want you. Have some self respect and walk away..
YES it’s HARD and you just want to know why or just want him to come back, but you’ve got to put your pride aside and realize that HE IS WHERE HE WANTS TO BE. He made his decision, It’s time you chose yourself too…
