“Q”: I MET THIS GUY I ASSUMED WAS JUST FRIENDLY AND FLIRTY, HOW DO I SHOW HIM THE FEELING IS MUTUAL?
“A”: If I’ve learned nothing, it is that the truth will set you free. No matter how small it is, speaking your true feelings regardless of what happens, will always make you feel better!!! Sooooo I wold suggest just being honest.
As much as we want men to read our minds, THEY DON’t !!!! Soooo BEFORE you tell him the truth, you have to READ HIS MIND, annoying I know, but very necessary!!!! When i say read his mind, I mean see the signs!!! does he make an effort to talk to you, does he listen, is he accommodating and brings up opportunities for you guys to spend time together?? Because those are signs that he likes you, BUT then again if he’s not doing those things, that doesn't mean he doesn’t like you, he could just not want to overstep without knowing if the feeling is mutual, sooooooo you literally never know!!! Which is why the truth is always the best option….
Go to him and try getting an understanding of how he feels, and whether his feelings are mutual or not, I would say tell him what you told me!! THAT YOU LIKE HIM🤷🏽♀️
Let him know you enjoy the time you spend together, you appreciate him and like the direction you two are headed in. STOP BEING SCARED! You deserve to be happy and in a healthy relationship. Speak up and get yo man!!!
