“Q”: So my mans baby’s mother has tried to ruin our relationship in the past & now that we have our own child together she’s kinda stepped back, but has moved onto sleeping with his brother & keeping his son away, however his brother is in a relationship with his babymother & her & my mans bm are cool with her, they both chitchat & talk shit about me to each other & his family , what should I do? Let the brothers babymother know or keep my distance n lettem be stupid together ?
“A”: Siiiisssssss, THAT WAS A LOT!!!!!!! But in all that, i would just say to STAY OUT OF IT!!!! If I’ve learned nothing in life, it’s that sometimes, the BEST response is just NO RESPONSE at all. People are gonna be people and you have to let them be. Especially because you can’t control what comes out of someone else mouth. Only thing you can control, IS YOU.
I feel like as long as the man your’re with is being your man and not succumbing to the nonsense around him, then you have nothing to worry about.
— i would use this as a test to practice SELF CONTROL and realize that you are MUCH BETTER than BS ass women who have nothing else better to do!!!
REMEMBER: “Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how YOU CHOOSE to react…
